I once sensed God whisper something that changed how I relate to people: “Stop looking for evidence of evil in their lives, and start looking for Me.” That insight stirred compassion instead of judgment. Besides, guilt already speaks loudly enough. Why be another voice of the accuser? The Spirit speaks differently. His voice sounds like advocacy, not condemnation. He looks for the image of God in people and draws it out with words that say, “I made you. I love you.” Partner with that.